MY WILLA I LOVE YOU
My Willa
The greatest thing in life is my wife Willa. We got married back in 06 at Turtle Point on the American side of Niagara Falls.
We
met at Walmart in 04 because I smiled at her and she smiled back. Back
in 03 I lost my wife Linda after 43 years of happy marriage. She was a
happy healthy lady one day and dead the next. She died of a brain
aneurysm. I had no mother no father no brother or sister no son or
daughter and no wife. Life didnt mean much to me anymore.
Willa lost her husband to a motor cycle accident back in 02. He left for a ''ride'' one day and never came home alive. Such is life.
We
''dated'' at the Walmart coffee shop for some time. She thought I was a
maintenance man in a furniture factory and I learned she was a nurse in
a rehab center in Boone. We went slow and got to know each other.
Sometimes we would go to the Sagebrush Steak house for dinner and then
go up on the ''mountain'' and sit and talk and watch the traffic go by.
She
finally invited me to ''dinner'' at her house in Boone and it was a
disaster. The carrots were not ''done'' in the beef stew, there was one
potato in the potato salad that was not completely cooked and she had
''sweetened the tea'' TWICE. I think she was a bit nervous to say the
least. The green beans were really good and so was the home made bread.
We sat and talked on the sofa for a while and I excused myself to go
home because it was getting dark and I had almost 40 miles to go to get
back home. I kissed her goodbye on the porch and as I was leaving she
shouted........ ''WAIT A MINUTE''......''I MADE DESSERT''....... ''PECAN
PIE, WITH ICE CREAM ON TOP''...... I took a pass on the pie for fear
she may have forgotten to shell all the pecans. In desperation she
shouted after me....'' IM A GOOD COOK,,,,,,,,,, LOOK HOW BIG I
AM''.......She was not ''big'' but I guess all women think they should
lose a few pounds.... we still laugh about that meal. After that we
started seeing each other on a regular basis. I finally told her that I
was not been a maintenance man in a furniture factory, I told her that I
had owned the furniture factory. Our relationship got more personal
after that and I finally started having a reason to stay alive again. We
dated for a while and I asked her if she had ever been traveling in a
motor home. She said no and that she had never been to the outer banks
here in NC. She had never been anywhere to see anything. I told her that
''this will change'' if you stick with me. She took a weeks vacation
and we went to the outer banks and then down to Wallace to meet her
children. Life was good again. I told her that I lived to travel and
that she should quit her job so we would be free to travel. She had
rental property to supplement her income and I suggested that she should
quit the nursing job because I had enough money for both of us. Strange
as it may seem we did not ''live together'' at that time. I had great
trepidation concerning My Willa. I
was not sure that I could truly love again and I absolutely did not want
to ''use this lady'' or ''hurt her'' in any way. True, we slept
together in the coach and sometimes on the weekends at her house but she
still lived in Boone and I in Granite Falls. We would take week long
trips in the coach and come back home. Her to Boone and me to Granite
Falls. In 05 I proposed that we go to Alaska for four months or so. She
was delighted and we left in June and returned in October. Linda and I
had been to Alaska in 2000 so I knew my ''way around'' and I was able to
show My Willa all the fun stuff
between NC and Fairbanks and everything in between. Life was good to say
the least. When we returned from Alaska I proposed marriage to My Willa.
I figured that if we could spend 120 days together in a 33 foot motor
home and still liked each other and that we should get married and spend
our lives together. She said ''YES''..... I bought a diamond ring for
her and she spent the next months ''Glowing'' and
''Showing''............. In July of 06 I made this wonderful lady my
wife and life is good. We ''honeymooned'' in Nova Scotia for a couple of
months, came home, put on two front tires on the coach and went to
California for a while and then to Florida for the winter. I lost 9
pounds but I smiled a lot......... (nuff said 'bout that)
Since then
we have traveled to 49 states and most of Canada. We have logged about
70 thousand miles on the coach and needless to say ''LIFE IS GOOD''. We
have been back to Alaska on our second honeymoon on a two week cruise on
the Tahitian Princess going up the inside passage.
My Willa
and I share life. We are still very much in love and we love to be with
each other. She is my life, my wife and my best friend and I truly
believe that I could not live without her by my side. We can talk and
laugh and sometimes cry together. We share our lives and our love for
each other and it is my wish that everyone could have the wonderful life
that we share. True, sometimes rarely, we have a difference but it is
always put away before bed time and it is usually over something really
stupid that means nothing in the greater plan of life as it were. Mere
words can not express my feelings for this lady. She is the sunshine
that warms my face on a cold day and the cool breeze of summer evenings.
She is the warm rain to grow my life and the soft winds that change the
seasons. She is all to me and I would be nothing without her. She is my
love, my life, my darling wife and when God decides to take one of us,
my prayer is that it will be me for I could not and would not live
without My Willa
Seajay the sailor man …...
(i love my baby girl)
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
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